Relationships

Leninrocks244 · January 19, 2012, 10:05:27 PM

So what's the Dudeist standpoint on relationships? Like, for kids occupying various administration buildings, smoking a lot of thai sticks breaking into the ROTC and bowling. Is it worth the effort to find someone if you're feeling lonely or do I just put my shades on go into my school's bowling alley and abide?

DigitalBuddha · January 19, 2012, 11:06:30 PM

Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 19, 2012, 10:05:27 PM
So what's the Dudeist standpoint on relationships? Like, for kids occupying various administration buildings, smoking a lot of thai sticks breaking into the ROTC and bowling. Is it worth the effort to find someone if you're feeling lonely or do I just put my shades on go into my school's bowling alley and abide?

Well, I'm married to my special lady friend, so that about sums it up for me. Though, I do head down to my local alley for a few rolls, a few beers, and some burgers.

Leninrocks244 · January 20, 2012, 09:40:13 AM

Sounds about right, man. Far out.

Caesar dude · January 20, 2012, 02:04:56 PM

I'm in love with my special lady dude...would marry her in a heart beat.

Start searching dude...you'll find THE one who will roll with you eventually or be Zen and let her find you. It will happen when it's meant to.

Peace.

meekon5 · January 20, 2012, 04:32:59 PM

I've personally spent the last ten years purposefully avoiding relationships.

Not really felt I could afford to be in a relationship until now.

Caesar dude · January 20, 2012, 05:07:12 PM

That's very deep Meekon. "can't afford" can mean many things dude!

meekon5 · January 20, 2012, 06:51:07 PM

Yes not just fiscally but time and emotion as well. Spent a while on medication due to a break down etc.

Leninrocks244 · January 20, 2012, 07:01:55 PM

I feel you, Dude. Been having some myself lately. I've been going through some shit in my private residence for the last month, so I know how you feel man.

Leninrocks244 · January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM

And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

cckeiser · January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM

Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide.

Leninrocks244 · January 20, 2012, 10:35:40 PM

Quote from: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide.

Y'know, man.. I've been trying my hardest to abide... bowling, listening to Bob and Ludwig... nothing's working right now, Dude.

cckeiser · January 20, 2012, 11:25:14 PM

Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:35:40 PM
Quote from: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide.

Y'know, man.. I've been trying my hardest to abide... bowling, listening to Bob and Ludwig... nothing's working right now, Dude.

Try some Etta dude.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Pa8l8sbo5w&feature=related

Leninrocks244 · January 20, 2012, 11:41:07 PM

Didn't she just die today? Even more of a downer, man.

BikerDude · January 21, 2012, 01:41:07 PM

I used to head down to the local watering hole and knock but a few beers and watch some sports.
Shooting the breeze with brother Dudes often picks up the spirits but when it's a lady that's bumming you that can make it worse.
The best advice is some zesty enterprises with a special or even not so special lady friend.

How bout a strip club? Couldn't hurt.

Leninrocks244 · January 21, 2012, 02:26:45 PM

Well, I still jerk off manually. Dunno, I failed to see the point of strip clubs as I've grown older... You go, pay money for a ladyfriend to rub her ass on your johnson..... then what? Can't jerk off manually, because that's crossing the line in the sand. I've just been listening to the actual Dude's band and hoping she gets this one specific message ASAP, man. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YS_2P1DnNWE