Tell me friends is it wrong to run away and become a Dudeist to help overcome my grief following the death of my Great Uncle Fred who was eaten by a giant African chocolate frog while fishing on the Limpopo river? Should I instead have followed the family tradition and, as his closest living relative, taken all of his money and debauched myself to death in the fleshpots of South East Asia? Have I done the wrong thing in deciding to do nothing rather than proactively going out in a drunken drug riddled orgy?
You can't be worrying about that shit. Fuck it. Go bowling.
The two are not exclusive.
debauche away.