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The Dude Lifestyle => Living the Life of the Dude => Topic started by: Leninrocks244 on January 19, 2012, 10:05:27 PM

Title: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 19, 2012, 10:05:27 PM
So what's the Dudeist standpoint on relationships? Like, for kids occupying various administration buildings, smoking a lot of thai sticks breaking into the ROTC and bowling. Is it worth the effort to find someone if you're feeling lonely or do I just put my shades on go into my school's bowling alley and abide?
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: DigitalBuddha on January 19, 2012, 11:06:30 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 19, 2012, 10:05:27 PM
So what's the Dudeist standpoint on relationships? Like, for kids occupying various administration buildings, smoking a lot of thai sticks breaking into the ROTC and bowling. Is it worth the effort to find someone if you're feeling lonely or do I just put my shades on go into my school's bowling alley and abide?

Well, I'm married to my special lady friend, so that about sums it up for me. Though, I do head down to my local alley for a few rolls, a few beers, and some burgers.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 09:40:13 AM
Sounds about right, man. Far out.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Caesar dude on January 20, 2012, 02:04:56 PM
I'm in love with my special lady dude...would marry her in a heart beat.

Start searching dude...you'll find THE one who will roll with you eventually or be Zen and let her find you. It will happen when it's meant to.

Peace.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: meekon5 on January 20, 2012, 04:32:59 PM
I've personally spent the last ten years purposefully avoiding relationships.

Not really felt I could afford to be in a relationship until now.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Caesar dude on January 20, 2012, 05:07:12 PM
That's very deep Meekon. "can't afford" can mean many things dude! ;)
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: meekon5 on January 20, 2012, 06:51:07 PM
Yes not just fiscally but time and emotion as well. Spent a while on medication due to a break down etc.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 07:01:55 PM
I feel you, Dude. Been having some myself lately. I've been going through some shit in my private residence for the last month, so I know how you feel man.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide. 8)
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:35:40 PM
Quote from: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide. 8)

Y'know, man.. I've been trying my hardest to abide... bowling, listening to Bob and Ludwig... nothing's working right now, Dude.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 11:25:14 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:35:40 PM
Quote from: cckeiser on January 20, 2012, 10:33:03 PM
Quote from: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 10:28:52 PM
And I've gotten myself in a really awkward kind of unDude position with a ladyfriend of mine. She broke up with her Donny because of her own fucked up confusion and now she's looking towards me to date. I gotta admit, I really dig her. A lot. But I don't want to put a lot in this so I won't get really bummed out like last time. But when she told me she still digs her Donny, I was bummed regardless. Fucking hate feeling like this, and I'm stuck in my private residence because of the fucking Chicago snowstorm, man.

Abide dude...abide. 8)

Y'know, man.. I've been trying my hardest to abide... bowling, listening to Bob and Ludwig... nothing's working right now, Dude.

Try some Etta dude.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Pa8l8sbo5w&feature=related
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 20, 2012, 11:41:07 PM
Didn't she just die today? Even more of a downer, man.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: BikerDude on January 21, 2012, 01:41:07 PM
I used to head down to the local watering hole and knock but a few beers and watch some sports.
Shooting the breeze with brother Dudes often picks up the spirits but when it's a lady that's bumming you that can make it worse.
The best advice is some zesty enterprises with a special or even not so special lady friend.

How bout a strip club? Couldn't hurt.

Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 21, 2012, 02:26:45 PM
Well, I still jerk off manually. Dunno, I failed to see the point of strip clubs as I've grown older... You go, pay money for a ladyfriend to rub her ass on your johnson..... then what? Can't jerk off manually, because that's crossing the line in the sand. I've just been listening to the actual Dude's band and hoping she gets this one specific message ASAP, man. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YS_2P1DnNWE
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: BikerDude on January 21, 2012, 02:38:07 PM
Does the female form make you uncomfortable?

I just dig strippers.
The environment makes me feel at ease.
Hot woman all around. Sports on the TV.
Drinks.
And I admit I just love to watch the babes work the frat boys for all their money.
I like it when it's slow and the chicks are just hanging around and you can rap with them.
Date a stripper. It'll make yer Johnson 4 inches longer.
Guys go crazy for her all night and if they so much as touch her they get chucked into the parking lot on their face.
Then you go home with her laughing all the way.
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Hominid on January 21, 2012, 02:56:59 PM
A man after my own heart. In Toronto, where I visit once or twice a year, there's a classy place called "For Your Eyes Only" (http://foryoureyesonly-club.com/)... The girls are awesome. I fall in love with a different one every time I go  ;)

Never had the confidence to date one though.  Something about being married.  ;)
Title: Re: Relationships
Post by: Leninrocks244 on January 21, 2012, 05:46:20 PM
I need to start looking up more strip clubs there are 21 and under, man. The Admiral Theater is the only one I know, but it's very unDude. Dress codes? Mark it ZERO!
Title: Re: Relationships
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