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Title: Special lady friends
Post by: Caesar dude on April 09, 2010, 04:01:02 PM
I have just been dumped by my special lady friend...the usual reasons..."the timing isn't right", "I have too much going on at the moment" etc.

Now a few years ago I would have been crying in my oat soda but now in true Dudely fashion I took it on the chin and remarked casually "well sometimes you eat the bar and sometimes she eats you" she didn't get the reference!  ;)

How do you guys cope with a break up...I'm remarkably Zen about the whole affair!

Peace dudes.



Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Bishop on April 10, 2010, 02:21:37 PM
Break ups don't exist. They are illusions, like relationships. Sound and fury, to fill the awkward social expectations between human males and females.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Klaus Korters on April 12, 2010, 04:20:03 PM
Well I guess it ain't your dick thats splitting with ya, so hey practice sessions are back in order!
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Caesar dude on April 12, 2010, 06:19:09 PM
QuoteWell I guess it ain't your dick thats splitting with ya, so hey practice sessions are back in order!

Oh man I really lolled at that.....nearly cried man!  ;D

Yeah you're right...I can still jerk off manually!

Thanks for the laugh dude I'm still giggling while I type!  ;D

In peace!
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: meekon5 on April 13, 2010, 07:45:15 AM
I can only give you the usual advice that I give anyone in this situation:

Life is shit.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Caesar dude on April 13, 2010, 03:15:12 PM
Meekon! I'm surprised at you!

Life is not all shit...strikes and gutters dude!

Anyhoo I may not be the ladies special man friend any more but that didn't stop her taking me home for the weekend! Life is good and I live in hope!

Peace man.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Robert the Dude on April 13, 2010, 04:46:00 PM
Quote from: Klaus Korters on April 12, 2010, 04:20:03 PM
Well I guess it ain't your dick thats splitting with ya, so hey practice sessions are back in order!

There's pearls of wisdom in thar, old one eye.
   
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: TheManForHisTimeAndPlace on April 13, 2010, 05:39:50 PM
Life goes on, man.

But if she asks you to watch her fuckin' dog, tell her to go fuck herself.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Rev.Wendy aka The Dude a-Rides on April 13, 2010, 10:08:05 PM
Well I was just "disappeared" on by someone who I was going from 'lady friend' to 'special lady' with.
Fuckin' human paraquat.
I know my rights man. So I told him he was just RUDE. (then i facebook blocked him. which is the ULTIMATE in social statements)

That guy was a real marmot in my tub anyhow. Fuck it Dude. I'm gearing up for the next round robin.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: not_exactly_a_lightweight on April 13, 2010, 10:10:49 PM
Facebook is immediate and immediately forgotten.
Now getting a fax, that's RUDE

ask for non-consecutive 20's
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: meekon5 on April 14, 2010, 05:40:22 AM
Quote from: Caesar dude on April 13, 2010, 03:15:12 PM
....Meekon! I'm surprised at you!....

Sorry man I'm just a bitter little troll when it comes to women (only in a personal relationships thing). ;D
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Rev.Wendy aka The Dude a-Rides on April 15, 2010, 02:26:11 AM
I know now why the nice guys "finish last"

it's cuz there are so many f*cked up women out there!
not necessarily byatches, per se, just women trained from an early age
to be emotionally unavailable or be attracted to emotionally unavailable Dudes. (or, undudes, I guess)

**I still think we should start a Dudeist dating service

Myself, it is UNACCEPTABLE that anyone I date not have seen and loved TBL.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: meekon5 on April 15, 2010, 10:05:06 AM
Quote from: Whiteheart on April 15, 2010, 02:26:11 AM

**I still think we should start a Dudeist dating service


With all the wacked out nutjobs in here (I include myself in that defenition of course).

You really must hate yourself.  ;D
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Rev.Wendy aka The Dude a-Rides on April 15, 2010, 05:40:09 PM
No man, lol, sharing a faith/belief system/way of life/life in general attitude
provides a wicked strong foundation, or part of it.
haven't experienced that yet.
plus, the QUOTES, omg, the quotes. it would never end. nirvana.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Matt the Walrus on April 17, 2010, 11:52:58 PM
Quote from: not_exactly_a_lightweight on April 13, 2010, 10:10:49 PM
Facebook is immediate and immediately forgotten.
Now getting a fax, that's RUDE

ask for non-consecutive 20's


How 'bout a handwritten letter? That's the kind of thing that makes an impression. When's the last time someone took the time to send you a handwritten letter? Can't say I recall the last time I got one. Doesn't matter what it says, I'm taking that shit to heart.
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Rev.Wendy aka The Dude a-Rides on April 18, 2010, 01:27:08 AM
HAHAHAH brilliant, so true! i will , next time i want my aggression to stand!
Title: Re: Special lady friends
Post by: Klaus Korters on April 18, 2010, 09:54:53 AM
Quote from: Caesar dude on April 12, 2010, 06:19:09 PM
QuoteWell I guess it ain't your dick thats splitting with ya, so hey practice sessions are back in order!

Oh man I really lolled at that.....nearly cried man!  ;D

Yeah you're right...I can still jerk off manually!

Thanks for the laugh dude I'm still giggling while I type!  ;D

In peace!

Hey no worries dude, had been in porno wilderness, dry as a bone, for a dog's age myself. Just gotta keep a balance, especially if it's a new technique you're trying.
Peace to you fella ;D