Going Through Custody Dudes, Anyone Ever Deal With This?

[Tatmanelectric]

Been apart for over 4 years dudes, now she has new man around and she's taken it to court in Pennsylvania. I have saved a money for if this ever happen but i am in Pittsburgh,I have read nothing online but not great stuff, anyone experienced the same thing in western PA that has any advice?

[Rev Dave Man]

A close friend of mine's son is going through this in the Pittsburgh area.  The best advice he gave was to make sure you do background checks on your lawyer and make sure that they are VERY GOOD at family law. This can get very ugly so make sure your lawyer is competent and aggressive enough in case it gets dirty.  I've been through Family Court in Western NY over the years and it is a very stressful situation.  The most important thing is to make sure that the children are shielded from the ugliness and that they don't get used as pawns or get dragged through the mud.  Just remember, that "THIS TOO SHALL PASS", it just may take a while.  Being in the thick of it, it is sometimes hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but remember that you'll get through it and normalcy will return.  Best of luck to you Dude.